Is there a difference love-making and making love? My answer is, absolutely!  Love-making, in my opinion, is a physical act between two people.  Making love, on the other hand, goes much deeper into the spiritual connection between the couple.

It’s the same with comparing sex and intimacy.  Intimacy is more than sex or making love. It’s more of a combination of the physical AND emotional connection you feel with your partner. Intimacy involves a soul connection between two people.

While instant chemistry can be exciting and thrilling, the chemistry that makes marriages work usually grows over time. This special chemistry between two people involves excellent communication and self sacrifice more than physical attraction. It takes trust, patience, and willingness to talk and to listen.

With greater intimacy, married couples tend to have a more satisfying and fulfilling romantic life. They learn how to do the things that please each other. They learn how to communicate. Being able to express what you want is important and genuinely listening to your spouse are key factors in building an intimate romance.

So how can you grow in intimacy with you the person you committed the rest of your life to?

Determine what you really need out of the relationship. Is friendship more important than financial stability? Or must the bills be paid on time even if your spouse doesn’t have much time with you? Can you sacrifice long conversations for more affectionate behavior? Or do you need to talk things out no matter how long it takes? The list can go on.

Determine what your spouse really needs. At first your husband or wife may be reluctant to share what he or she needs. They may have never really thought about it in an organized fashion. Maybe it would help to have him/her write down his/her desires when he/she is relaxed. Some suggestions: do a really nice deed for your partner like, drawing a warm bath or cooking a nice meal. Then ask them to take the time to think about what they need in the relationship.

Make an effort to change your behavior everyday. If your partner needs more space, give it to them. If they need more of your time, make yourself available no matter what. Learn how to tune in to your mate’s needs and desires will go a long way towards maintaining harmony in the relationship.  Also, try a little spontaneity from time to time.  Surprise your spouse with a special candlelight dinner or a nice body massage after a hard day’s work.

Take care of yourself. If you are frazzled, you won’t be a fun person to be around. Make sure that you have your own “me” time everyday where you can pray, meditate, and take care of your personal needs. Whether it’s writing in a journal, reading a good book, going to the spa or just doing nothing at all, give yourself some space so when you come back together, you’ll appreciate each other even more.

Choosing your wedding flowers is a confusing decision for many brides.  Pam Archer, from Pamela’s Exclusive Floral & Event Design, offers brides tips on how to select flowers that are appropriate for the venue where the wedding or reception will take place.

Actress, TV Producer and Boomer Diva Nation member Debbie Zipp explains how she has found a way to “contain” herself with a new product designed for women.

Video created by In the Trenches Productions

Why have we, as women, become so obsessed with cosmetic surgery and the desire to look younger?

Video created by In the Trenches Productions

The mother and sister of the bride had some great ideas for this wedding. In this video, the mother tells Pam Archer, of Pamela’s Event Design about the address book. Another highlight are their simple, casual, wedding centerpieces and guest favors. The bride’s sister also made fans for the guests with the order of ceremony printed on them, with a picture of Molly and Adam. Beautifully done.

If you want a little sample of some of the fun you’ll have at this year’s Conference, check out this video from last year’s event.

Want to learn more about what it takes to start and grow your business and just have some plain old girlfriend’s fun in the process?

Boomer Diva Nation will have some answers during their 2nd Annual Women’s Conference.

A little R & R is taking on a whole new meaning for some boomer women.  A new trend is offering a little cosmetic surgery to go along with your vacation.